Fame, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. Without famous actors we’d miss out on some great art. Famous scientists like Neil deGrasse Tyson introduce us to new information. And famous people from all strolls of life can use their celebrity to draw attention to charitable causes that need our help.( I personally use what little notoriety I have to petition Michael Fassbender to run bottomless in all of his movies .)
But we as a society have decided over the past 20 years or so that being famous is the most important thing in the world. And that’s becoming a big problem. Here’s why we need to embrace a lifetime of anonymity.
# 5. We’re More Focused On Fame Than Ever
We’ve told you before that a ridiculous 51 percent of 18- to 25 -year-olds think they will be famous the working day. But it starts even younger than that. When mothers asked their children as young as 5 what they wanted to be when they grew up, 19 percentage said they wanted to be famous. When I was 5 I wanted to marry my daddy and eat cotton candy all day when I grew up, and that is still a more realistic dreaming. But perhaps this new development shouldn’t arrive as much of a astonish, considering that the TV targeted at children in the last decade, like American Idol and Hannah Montana , has placed more value on reputation than ever before.The Voice , on the other hand, is about real talent, which is why I can’t name a single win .
The problem is that being famous is replacing traditional aims. When a poll of 16 -year-olds finds that 54 percent of them want to be famous, but only 1 percent want to work in an office and 4 percent want to become educators, you are defining a whole generation up for a lifetime of feeling like a failing. Running in a sea of cubicles is soul-destroying enough without your broken dreamings hanging over you the whole time.
And those dreamings of being the first actor-turned-director-turned-astronaut will still be there for most of you. Even once we grow up and get jaded, 40 percent of us still want to be famous. Thirty percent of “youre supposed to” daydreamed about it at some point today.Don’t forget to put your hand on your face, or it doesn’t count .
And these days, thanks to social media, we can all feel a little bit famous every minute of the day. Even if you have only 50 Twitter adherents, the hell is 50 people who seem to care about what you have to say, who might retweet a gag or like a photo. But those micro-fame moments become addictive and can destroy your self-esteem, rather than improve it like aimed. Millions of people who post selfies on Instagram are bothered when they don’t get enough likes and will even take posts down if they don’t garner enough attention.
# 4. People Will Stop At Nothing To Become Famous
After a while you start to feel like you can’t go without the reassurance that tiny sum of personal celebrity gives you. You require more adherents, more “fans, ” because you have to get your daily dose of attention. And, for some people, keeping fame limited to a few thousand people online stops being enough. They need to bring it into the real world.
This can be as simple as taking the sungs you posted on YouTube and starting to sing them at open mic nights. But there are people out there who want to be famous but have no talents. They can’t dismiss the signs that society gives them that fame is the ultimate measure of success. And we as a society don’t care if you got famous for being good or bad; we’ll still put your face on the encompas of People.And stick Leonard Nimoy’s tribute in the corner, because we SUCK .
Researchers are now saying that one of the reasons America has so many mass shootings is because of the emphasis we put on fame. We see it all the time in the manifestos left behind by these shooters: They all want to surpass Columbine in infamy and body count, they want to be plastered on the news, and they want to become a household name. And “its only” very, very recently( like, within the last year) that media outlets are learning to not give in to these passions. But as long as even one news channel concentrates on the killer, the need for a sick various kinds of fame will still motivate these people.
Assassinations are often driven by the same reasons. According to a study of people who have tried to kill politicians, it usually has nothing to do with politics and everything to do with get people to notice them after a lifetime of being invisible. One guy who attempted to assassinate a vice president said he thought he might get a “whole chapter” in the history books for that.Why he supposed anyone was reading its own history volume is another thing .
And while assassination is definitely the worst show of this obsessive required to famous, there are other harmful styles people try to get their name in the news. It is mind-blowing how many 15 -minutes-of-fame reality-TV stars have gone on to pose for Playboy, released a sexuality videotape, or simply straight-up started starring in porn. Now, far be it from me to judge these women( and some men) if they truly get joy and self-worth from putting their bodies out there for public consumption. But I have a feeling that for most of them it is a last-ditch effort to keep themselves relevant, even if they have to do something they never thought they would. When you would rather display the world your O-face than have them not give a shit about you at all, it might be time to question why.
# 3. It Can Find You Even If You Don’t Want It
So what does this means for you? Well, we know you can get famous for nothing. If you want to be on a reality show, fine; it’s your selection to send in the form. But not all no-effort notoriety is Kardashian fame. In a world where we accept that anyone can become a celebrity for any reason, a lot of people have discovered they are famous for the incorrect one.Remember Justine Sacco? She was the most famous person online for a few days back in 2013. You probably posted something about how horrible she was. That’s because she tweeted this 😛 TAGEND
It was a terrible gag dashed off in a couple seconds, and it ended up attaining her famous. She also lost her undertaking and their own lives was ruined for a long time. No matter what she achieves in their own lives, that will be what she is best known for. This is the other side of the celebrity coin; yes, your chances of being known outside your friends and family are better now than ever, but because of how easy it is for people to become well-known for anything, you might not have control over what you get famous for.No, the world does not am worried about your superhuman ability to unclog lavatories .
Just ask the dentist that shoot Cecil the lion. He had the correct permit to go big-game hunting, just like dozens of other people every year, but because he shot the incorrect one he became an Internet celebrity. He also received hundreds of death threats and had to close his practice for weeks. Once you become famous online it is a free-for-all. It doesn’t matter if you were a private citizen before that; now society owns you and usually will not be kind. That’s because …
# 2. Our Culture Hankers To Insure Famous People Fail
America is really, really good at churning out celebrities. And our actors and singers become famous around the world at a rate no other country can match. But we expect a lot from people whom we build up to those heights. Namely, that you be perfect all the time. A clue of scandal and we are more than happy to tear you down.
The gossip trade is a$ 3 billion a year industry. That’s “billion, ” with a B. And no one wants to read about how great famous person are. They are already richer and most attractive than we are, so give us some good schadenfreude. We want to see these apparently perfect people fall.“ Rectus. Hoc honebus .”
Then there are the people we love to detest. The Kardashian family did not become as successful as they are today because everyone was ignoring them. But because we don’t really think they deserve their notoriety, we are willing to believe almost any terrible thing about them. For example, when Lamar Odom was rushed to the hospital a few weeks ago, members of his estranged wife’s family hurried to be by his side. And if you believe this Radar Online headline, they did so with cameras in tow, all ready to film that human misfortune for their TV display. It didn’t matter that E! completely denied this; Radar still maintained the article up and people continued to believe it because it seemed like something those fame-whores would do.If you are OK with being urinated on, you must be fine with pulling the plug for ratings, too .
This also explains why we feel perfectly fine piling on people who get famous on the Internet. After all, they are getting to experience the celebrity so many of us would kill for, so they should expect the negative side as well. You tweeted 500 gags I loved but one that I thought was dumb? You’re a faggot. Your latest Instagram selfie doesn’t build you look as fairly as the last one? You’re an ugly slut. I didn’t enjoy this free article on a slapstick website? I need to send a death menace to the writer.
Not that any of you lovely people have ever considered doing that last one.
# 1. It Ultimately Makes Us Depressed
We’ve all read interviews with celebrities in which they whine about being famous, where they say that they wish they could just go grocery shopping again without being recognized. And while it might seem ridiculous to us that they are complaining about achieving something that so many other people want and that comes with so many astounding perks, they have a phase. Fame has almost never made anyone happy.
A study on the different stages of being famous found that celebrities experience extreme feelings like addiction to their renown, a loss of self, and a general sense of distrust of those around them.“Managing Not To Kill Yourself” should be an award category .
For those of us who want notoriety but don’t have it, that desire is almost never about actually becoming a celebrity. There is usually some unacknowledged require that we think being famous will fix. If you don’t feel like you get enough love or recognition from your parents or significant other, you might want millions of strangers to fill that gap. If you can’t afford all the things you want, you might assure notoriety as a way to achieve wealth. Or perhaps you only want to cheat demise. As we get older and our chances to become famous in this life become limited, people start to concentrate on how to be famous when they are die.Maybe you’ll ultimately get around to finishing that novel .
We have to stop obsessing. If we’re starting at 5 years old and only finally giving up on our deathbeds, we are wasting our lives chasing a dream it is not simply hurting society but wouldn’t stimulate us happy even if we caught it. Those are millions of lifetimes wasted, when we could be banding together to attain Michael Fassbender take his gasps off again.